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All These Cheating Celebrities Going to Sex Rehab Got Me Thinking…?
If your spouse had a sex addiction, would you stay with them if they went to rehab? Or is that unforgivable? Or does it depend on if he/she came up with it himself/herself or if they only decided to get help after getting caught? I know I would stay with my husband if he went for alcohol rehab, but I don’t think I could forgive cheating, regardless of the reason… What are your thoughts?
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Here is my thoughts….decades ago..there was no such thing as a sex rehab clinic….This is another ‘man-made’ money making scheme. The more we accept this crap, the dumber we as a society all become…
I think calling it an “addiction” is a cop-out. It makes it seem less bad in a way, like because it was an addiction they had no control over themselves. The truth is that they just like sex and the variety of sex with different people. They are just saying it is an addiction to keep the marriage together and make people sympathetic for them.
I wish people could just be honest instead of blaming it on things that are out of there control. “it wasn’t my fault, it was an addiction!” Whatever…. It makes it hard for people who truly do have an addiction to things.
Cheating is unforgivable in my book. Rehab for sex addiction is ridiculous to me. Its a nice try, but nevertheless, you cheated and you will probably do it again.
both. I would still divorce her, break-up whatever. I would also attend and support her thru it. And in return, I would be able to get the numbers of some of the other women for dating purposes. Its a win win win situation
HI MISS B,i think,head docs made up sex addiction,so men can,go screw who they want to n get away with a few months in rehab.PEACE
well of course its different if they got caught and want to go
but chances are if they complete rehab they really did want to go even if they had to because they got caught
some people might jsut deny themselves when they think they actually have a problem, so it may take them getting caught before they realize that they need help
a sex addiction is very similar to something like an alcohol addiction.
these people need help and how bad would it be to lose the person they love and have to go to rehab if they actually want to get better
cheating is serious but in some cases i believe its forgiveable
usually sex addicts dont even care who there having sex with but they dont care about who it is, and since they dont care they dont think that having sex with someone else is wrong. they will care about there wives, or husbands …. but not about whoever there feeding there addiction with
hope i helped …
Celebrates do not have a sexual addiction. They have a readily available mob of highly attractive choices because they are rich and famous. There is also in many cases that even their spouses are shallow and spoiled to fault. BECAUSE THEY ARE RICH AND FAMOUS.
You can not tell me even half the population would do any different. And one of the motivating factors in success to over half the population is just this along with wealth and fame. Dont give me some BS about hearts desire to succeed.
None of them are addicted to sex. They just need an excuse because they got caught. Do you really think any of them ran up to the people they cheated with and said “I’m addicted to sex. Let’s do it!”?
Why would I send her to rehab for that?
Is there reverse of that training?
“Tramp Camp” or something?
It’s not hard to stay faithful and keep the zipper up some men are married 20-30 years and never cheat on their wife or care to.
I’m addicted to sex.
He does have a sex addiction – to me and occasional internet porn.
It is not so much the forgiveness that is hard. We can always learn to forgive anyone. It is the fact that the relationship is never the same after one partner has cheated. The trust is gone. Trust is a big part of a good relationship. Without it, there isn’t much to build on.
Some couples make it after infallibility, but they are rare and they will admit that their relationship never returns to where it was.
How can it be an addiction. Its just someone not being able to control their darn hormones. Thy need to grow up and stop being selfish. Is it really worth losing their loving wife’s and precious children over a damn orgasm? As far as staying with them? If its been done once or twice, the couple needs to be very strong and willing to work things out. If its like Tiger Woods or Jesse James, I am sorry but that is a heinous thing to do. They act like its a disease or disorder to not be able to sustain from cheating. They are poor excuses of being men.
I am not married, but knowing what is involved, I would be forgiving and understanding toward my future wife if she was sexually fixated. There is a tremendous amount of mental manipulations within many sexual presentations, and around the whole idea of sexual pleasure, that many people are just not aware of. So it is not merely a matter of will power, nor a matter of truly loving someone to be able to give up being sexually fixated. That is why I wrote the book, and I encourage people to get their hands on the solution and help themselves and help others.
First of all, there is no such thing as “sex addiction”. It is simply a nice and pretty way to package someone who is chronically disloyal to their significant other; in order to invoke sympathy from others and a way out for the cheater to be held responsible for their very wrong actions and to give them more attention than they deserve. It is a way to “de-villanize” the villain. And that is terribly wrong as there is nothing that destroys a relationship faster and more horribly than infidelity.
People who have addictions are not to be given any sympathy. You may care about this person very much, but you can only care so much before it completely and utterly drains everything from you: your sense of self-respect, your sense of self (as you are giving more time to someone other than yourself, not having any time to center yourself) and your positiivty. It is one person living life for two people.
People were given the power of self-control. All of us have it, it is whether or not a person has the maturity to exercise that self control that determines the strength of a relationship, as that ability to control oneself and not do the things they KNOW would hurt their other half.
I could never stay with someone who cheats because someone who does that stoped caring about your feelings and the scaredness of your relationship long before you knew of it yourself. People who cheat probably will never agree to the terms of continuing the relationship that the victim sets forth because they have shown they are willing to skirt and dodge and cover their backsides to have their cake and eat it too.
Me and my husband have sex everyday multiple times does that make us sex addicts…? Sex addiction or sex rehab is just a way people who cheat on their spouses can cop-out and say it’s not my fault im addicted to sex. No. The real answer is they saw something else they liked and wanted to bang it.
Unless your having sex with dogs, cats, monkeys, and giraffes, anything with a hole or “shlong” then your not a sex addict. Even then it wouldn’t be called Sex addict it would be called Pervert Rehab.
Sex is good. People can control themselves, it’s only some people out there don’t want to or put themselves into positions to be tempted and choose to run with it. Sounds like a conciense decision to me they knew what they were doing.